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I know all of you have friends. Make your friendships deeper and stronger. How you do that? Lets's find out ;)
Friendship Rules
1. BE YOURSELF
A lot of us lose their identity once they become part of a group of friends. Though who you are is always changing, some aspects of your personality will stay pretty much the same. Figure out what those things are and think hard about who you want to be, then present yourself honestly and genuinely to the people you hang around with. Sometimes you're going to disagree or not be the most popular member of the group. However, you will always feel you've been true to yourself -- and that you haven't become somebody else's clone.
2. AVOID GOSSIP
Friends don't spread rumors about other friends -- even within their own group. If you've heard something shocking about someone you're friends with, find a considerate way of asking them about it personally. If you're not sure how to talk to them about it, seek the advice of one other trusted friend, but don't let the discussion turn into a free-for-all about everything you don't like about the person. You certainly wouldn't be happy if someone did that to you, so set a good example for others -- and for yourself.
3. DEFEND YOUR FRIENDS
It's also a good chance to show your friend that you have faith in them by standing up for their reputation. Whenever you can, be respectful of the other person's question or criticism but emphasize that your friend is a good person who deserves the respect of others, even when they make mistakes.
4. PROTECT YOUR FRIENDS
When a friend of yours is making not-so-great decisions -- whether it's about studying or dating -- do your best to look out for them. This doesn't mean telling them what to do constantly, but you can offer gentle advice and guidance from time to time. If you give advice in a caring way that shows you value your friend and respect their feelings and wishes, they're much more likely to pay attention. Chances are, what you think means a lot to them, and you can be a good influence.
5. RETURN THE FAVOR
There are times when a friend will lend you a jacket, a textbook or a shoulder to cry on. Be sure that you're equally as generous with your time, your emotions and your possessions. People will take notice, and it's something to feel good about.
How To Find True Friends
1. A GOOD FRIEND IS HONEST
A good friend may not share every detail of every second of their life, but they do try to be clear about their intentions. This means that they try to present an accurate picture of who they are and of different situations. When something doesn't seem right, they let you know.
2. A GOOD FRIEND IS FUN, UNIQUE AND INTERESTING
OK, this is a given, and probably the reason you became friends in the first place. But there's a lot to be said for chemistry and shared interests.As for fun, it depends how you define it: Some friends are fun because they're the life of the party, others are fun because they notice every strange little detail about a situation. Some people are fun simply because they see life like no one else does.
3. A GOOD FRIEND IS ATTENTIVE AND ADAPTABLE
A good friend is at least a fairly good listener and notices how little, day-to-day things affect you. They can't read your mind, but chances are they can usually tell when you're happy, sad, excited, shocked or upset. If they're aware that they're doing something that annoys you, they try to change their ways or at least talk to you about it.
4. A GOOD FRIEND IS SUPPORTIVE OF YOU AND YOUR GOALS
Sure, your friend may think you're cool, but are they on the same page as you? Do they know what you want most out of life? A really good friend will know what makes you tick and help you become the person you want to be. They won't try to change who you are or drag you into situations that make you uncomfortable or put you at risk of losing something that matters to you.
5. A GOOD FRIEND IS A FRIEND YOU CAN TRUST
A true friend won't try to steal your personality.They won't gossip about you constantly or try to damage your reputation. They will let you know when they're concerned and do their best to stick up for you when you're in trouble.
6. A GOOD FRIEND MAKES IT CLEAR THAT THEY CARE ABOUT YOU
Different people may have different ways of letting you know that they care about you. One person may give you a big hug whereas another person might gently tease you. A big clue that someone cares is that they talk to you fairly often and, in general, know what's going on in your life and act interested about it.
7. A GOOD FRIEND STICKS WITH YOU IN GOOD TIMES AND BAD
Loyalty is a quality almost everyone lists when asked what they look for in a friend. If you move or switch schools or when your parents get divorced, they'll do their best to stay in touch with you.
8. A GOOD FRIEND ACCEPTS YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE
In friendship, being accepting goes hand in hand with being loyal. A true friend rolls with the punches as you grow and change and know how to deal with your quirks and faults.They are also patient with you when you make mistakes -- even big ones -- and learn how to forgive you when you hurt them. In other words, they treat you as you'd like to be treated, even when you aren't at your best.
THAT'S IT! I HOPE THIS POST CAN HELP YOU FROM YOUR FRIENDSHIP STUFF. THANKS FOR STOPPING BY!
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